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A Writing Life—In transition

A Writing Life—In transition

  I’m back in my home in Santa Fe following my teaching gig at the Yale conference. (Here’s the view from my front door the first morning I woke up in my house!) And now I am getting on to the business of being a…

Memoir at Yale University

Memoir at Yale University

What a heady week it was. My class on Memoir Writing at Yale was so big it overflowed the assigned room and we had to move across the street to an auditorium: Sudler Auditorium in Harkness Hall which is very near Sterling Memorial Library, the…

50 Things to Know About Memoir

50 Things to Know About Memoir


Shimmering Images Cover“Shimmering Images” is a guide on how to write your memoir. Here are 50 things to know about memoir and the book.

  1. Memoir is storytelling.
  2. Storytelling is art.
  3. Memoir is art.
  4. There’s a reason memoirs by newsmakers and celebrities top bestseller lists and capture the imagination of the American reading public.
  5. This is the Age of Memoir
  6. As the Wall Street Journal pointed out: Memoirs were once used mainly by retired political figures to burnish their reputations and relate a few moldy anecdotes of the self-serving “and then I telephoned the White House on the hotline” variety. But the times they are a changin’ and memoir is now the form of the masses.
  7. Writing your personal stories can transform the life you are living.
  8. Memoir is a story you shape about your life.
  9. Memoir is an agent of change.
  10. Memoir is a story of some slim segment of your life.
  11. “Shimmering Images” are the basis of memoir.
  12. “Shimmering Images” are flickering memory pictures—like an image of your mother peeling potatoes at the sink—that you’ve remembered forever and that hang around in your mind waiting to bring meaning in your life.
  13. “Shimmering Images” are doorways to your most powerful personal stories.
  14. You use your “Shimmering Images” to construct meaning.
  15. Writing stories is a way to order chaos.
  16. Story heals the soul in an elemental way.
  17. Memoir closes a story around life experience and in the process “closes” that experience in the past.
  18. You make stories to take yourself and others to a new realm where the spirit can be repaired.
  19. People read memoir to learn how to live a better life by witnessing mistakes, victories, wisdom, and humility displayed by fellow human beings.
  20. People read memoir to find heroes of everyday life.
  21. People want to be shown examples of how to live a better life.
  22. Each person has a story he tells about his life. Writing memoir is about transforming that story.
  23. Everything is a story.
  24. The job of the memoirist is to claim your own truth, accept responsibility for your actions, and make sense of other people’s actions in the context of a story.
  25. Every person remembers dozens of “Shimmering Images” every day.
  26. Life wouldn’t be recognizable without your “Shimmering Images.”
  27. People remember “Shimmering Images” because memories wait for you to pay attention to them and see the wisdom they have to share.
  28. Writing a personal story helps you make sense of the chaos of life events and attach meaning to them.
  29. People use words to make meaning in their lives.
  30. If you do not write your hardest stories they remain confused inside of you and you never get on to other things in your life.
  31. Writing life stories borders on they mystical because you become the master of your own reality.
  32. Writing a personal story is a kind of art that soothes the soul.
  33. When you write down your “Shimmering Images” and find the wisdom that’s inside them, you change.
  34. When you use the wisdom of your “Shimmering Images” to make a truth about the past, a new future dawns.
  35. Writing “Shimmering Images” gives people the opportunity to break free of old storylines and move on to bigger, more compassionate selves.
  36. “Shimmering Images” are key to understanding your life.
  37. If you write with balance, honesty, and compassion you don’t hurt people with your memoir.
  38. You must voice your stories to get beyond them.
  39. Being honest in memoir has to do with compassion for self and others.
  40. You can’t be truly honest if you aren’t being compassionate.
  41. Getting honest in memoir means learning compassion for the people in your life you would rather demonize.
  42. Getting honest in memoir means coming to terms with shared humanness, seeing all the players with empathy, including yourself.
  43. You have the right to speak.
  44. You have the right to tell your stories.
  45. You have the right to be heard.
  46. The book, “Shimmering Images,” helps you believe the stories you tell are important.
  47. The book, “Shimmering Images,” refuses to let naysayers silence the storyteller in each person.
  48. The book, “Shimmering Images,” helps you rip away the illusion of what you’ve always told yourself—the negative storylines—and construct a new, more positive way of seeing life experience.
  49. Narrative heals.
  50. The book “Shimmering Images,” gives writers a way to use wisdom to touch hearts and changes lives.

 

Teaching Memoir at Yale

Teaching Memoir at Yale

Later this month I’ll be on the faculty of the International Women’s Writing Guild (IWWG) 34th annual summer conference beginning June 24 on the campus of Yale University: http://www.iwwg.org. The Guild’s goal is, “personal and professional empowerment of women through writing,” and it draws women…

Writing Memoir: The Book

Writing Memoir: The Book

Here’s my summer writing desk at the cabin in the Sandhills. I’ve had time to turn back to my new book. You know what that’s like—life often gets in the way. I’m writing about love and inheritance and playing with modular and linear structures in…

Friends at the Ranch

Friends at the Ranch

My head is swimming with houses. I’ve looked at so many potential homes in and around Santa Fe, I can hardly think. Ever had real estate overload?

When I get back to the ranch where I am staying, I have friends to greet me. Here are some photos of my buddies.

Just couldn’t get the pooches to cooperate for a perfect pose. But they’ve been such good companions these past weeks I wanted you all to meet them. That’s Garbo in the back with the curly tail, and Newman in the front with his nose to the ground.

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Home again in Santa Fe

Home again in Santa Fe

After a year of travels through Europe and repeated treks across the U.S., I have come home to Santa Fe. The elegance of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains holds me in its palm. I have many stories to write, and I am eager to settle.…

Greetings from Prague

Greetings from Prague

Five hours via train and express bus operated by Deutsche Bahn Railways and I was in Prague. A quick weekend dash to the East from the Village of Schwaebisch Hall where I have been submerged in German. Sometimes I can not keep my sentences straight…

The Goethe Institute

The Goethe Institute

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Schwaebisch Hall—November 11, 2010

It’s the end of my first week of an Intensive German Language course at the Goethe Institute in Schwaebisch Hall, Germany. Those years of college language courses creep back into consciousness. Grammar flows onto the page, but still I stand in the vegetable section of the local Kaufland grocery store buying pistachios and apples and go blank when a colleague greets me with “Wie gehts!”

All my travels in Europe earlier this year made me crave a closeness with the German culture that I hadn’t felt since my humanities and music study in college. What all this will mean for the story I am writing I can not say right now, but I trust that it will be revealed when I need to know.

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Venezia—Full moon aqua alta

Venezia—Full moon aqua alta

  Wish I’d had a photo of me plunging through high water in Piazza San Marco the other day. I’d share it here, but it will have to live in memory. The crowds were queuing for the wooden walkways, but I had on knee waders.…